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Abusive ex want to meet new partner for a pint

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Littlefrogletx · 15/05/2017 22:03

Wtf do i do.
Been with dp a year, he met dc earlier than we ever wanted but one of exs stupid threats was i introduced him as a bf or he would tell dc that i was a lying slag ( his words)
Ex has a harrassment notice we have no contact as he can not stop being abusive.
Last month i told him he was not to contact me again, to contact dp or write letters.
I have ptsd because of 2 years of abusive shit.
He has since we split called my parents, my neighbours etc calling me a slut etc.
Now hes decided he wants to meet new partner.
He scares the shit out of me.
He has made 6/7 malucious reports to ss.
The last time he emailed me he was calling me a shit mum etc.
I think hes going to try and badmouth me to dp.
My dc really get on with him. Ex said to.dp that kids dont say a bad word about him.
He knows he is worthy of being in their lives.
My dd9 has said her dad wants to meet the man who spends more time with her.
To add, ex is a fucking coward who has.passed dp on the garden path and couldnt look him in the eye, but has no issues sending me nasty emails.
Any thoughts?
What do i do
Ex has introduced 3 gfs to kids in a year, ive kept out of it.

OP posts:
Patchouli666 · 16/05/2017 12:53

Your dp sounds lovely. You sound like you are afraid of saying no to the beer because you are afraid your dp will think badly of you. He is not your ex, you've been conditioned to walk on egg shells filled with doubt and second guessing, not allowed to make your own decisions for right or wrong for so long that you are afraid to say to your do ' you dint need to go and I don't want you to' he is NOT going to interpret that as you have ssomething to hide, why won't you pet h see your ex. He just Janet. He chose you. Not your ex. He sounds like he has a good moral compass, going through the courts for rights of access to his DD. Every thing suggests he will be fine doing what you want and feel is best.

Ignore the ex.

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