This is a really tricky horrible situation... and difficult to give any more details without outing.
New BF of two months. All seemed to be going rather well. He's an academic and initially he had told me he was on sabbatical doing research for a book.
But as we've spoken about his work the details have become strangely sketchy. It's not clear when he started his 'sabbatical' and it seems an abnormally long one (18 months so far and not due back until next year). I'm not an academic so I wouldn't know if this is normal or not.
Then the other day he said he had 'left'and was talking about finding a new job next year overseas. Which was odd, as before he'd said he was going back to his previous place of employment. When I asked more about this he changed the subject. I felt he was being evasive.
So I decided to do some research. Google and Twitter have brought up some alarming details of sexual harassment cases at his former place of work over a long period of time and (worryingly) in his department.
The timing of various investigations fits with when he left / went on sabbatical. Also the articles I've found mention confidentiality agreements signed by staff and students.
I feel very worried about accusing him of being involved with something this serious, based on just this info. I generally tend to worry and overthink things.
The institution is unlikely to tell me anything and how on earth would I ask?!
His behaviour towards me is kind, but our sexual relationship did happen very quickly. It's completely consensual, and so I'm finding it hard to imagine him harassing anyone.
Unsure how to proceed.