I have been dating my OH for about a year. Things were going great, when we started dating we both had jobs. His job was a part time job, even though he is in his late 20's and nothing was stopping him to have a full time job. He was't earning much, still living at home. I have motivated him to quit that job and look for a full time job. It didn't bother me too much money wise as I really liked him for him. He is not educated so can't get a professional good paying job. He has found a few job, none which were paying good but something always went wrong or he quit. He has now been unemployed for 4 months. He doesn't seem to be bothered to look for a job, he's living at home not doing anything day in and out. He doesn't even have any hobbies. I try to motivate him to go to the gym, to go look for a job, hand out CV's, apply online. I am trying to be supportive. He said he is scared I will leave his because he has no job. I am seriously thinking about it as I do not appreciate his lazy behaviour. We do not go out as he will not let me pay under any cost but doesn't have any money himself. I'm starting to think this whole time I was blind to what sort of character he is. The relationship is going down the drain...