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Firstly before anyone slates me dd has some mild additional needs and has a history of doing something really silly on the Internet when younger while at a friend's house on two occasions resulting in a ban and then Internet only where she could be seen hence I still worry about her staying safe given she can access the Internet at school and friends.
She is now 14 and has a phone which she needs due to the journey length she makes and I thought I had educated her enough to give her another chance now she's older although I still randomly check.
Anyway tonight she left her phone open and I thought I would have a quick check given her history and the way she has been behaving out of character recently and I'm horrified.
A couple of months ago a new girl also with some additional needs started at dds school and they became friends and have been texting.
The girl has said stuff about her parents so dd has made up horrible stuff about me and told the other child full on horrible lies.
The girl had put about killing herself so
Dd made up some lie about something I have done as to her reason and said she's going to kill herself because of it.
She's really vile about me in general including completely mocking about me saying I was going to go back to uni.
They are basically being horrible to another girl in school (which makes me furious as dd has been bullied in the past and suffered horribly)
There is some conversation about this other girl giving dd rules that she must stick to and dd asking repeatedly what the rules are.
But the worst is there is some conversation about marks on arms, another friend of dds had been questioned at school about self harming and the new girl had been doing it too.
Dd has I've just discovered been scratching her arm with a compass.
What the hell do I do.