What is too much sex ???

[Unicorndreamer]

I'm very highly sexed and think about sex alot. Me and dh probably have sex 9/10 times a week . My friends have told me that I must be a nymph maniac but I honestly just find my husband a huge turn on. We have been together 19 years and I'm 33 now with 4 kids . I'm not at all sexy or pretty but we both fancy eachother rotten. I just love sex and wondered if others are this way with regards sex or am I the minority . Don't get me wrong dh amd me can have cross words but we always come back together and have a great sex life ??? I constantly read on here how women detest sex amd do it as some kind of duty which saddens me alot.

I didn't want to have sex with my exh.
He was rude and abusive and not all that hygienic.
We were together around 15 years in total.

Can't get enough of my dp though and don't remember a time where I haven't been in the mood (and I'm currently 8 months pregnant!)

Come back and tell us how much sex you're having when you're in your late 40s and menopause has started doing it's thing to you.

I have to say I'd go off it if I did it 9/10 times a week. I'd be like, can't you just make dinner or read to the kids or something?

Hmmmmm

I think we have to argee to disagree he hasnt left me and hasnt had sex with anyone else that i no off . I dont see why i should leave him if he doesnt care either i like being married i.love me husband i just dont like sex. im like thinking the thought of it makes me gag and i think people who do it a lot and tell people they do it a lot weridos

No one cares you don't have sex. Stop judging people for enjoying it.

It's all about having a compatible sex drive. Two people that want loads will get on great. Two people that don't want/need much will also get on great. The issues appear when the sex drives/needs are completely different.

*Today 16:08 Imi22sleeping

Why would u marry someone knowing the way they feel and then make it an issue if u dont like cheese you arent going to start liking it are you im glad my husband isnt as selfish as you*

I wouldn't marry them, I couldn't even date someone who was repulsed to gagging point by me touching them I hope you don't tell him he makes you gag, poor bugger.

I always had a high sex drive but not sure how I would fit in sex so often. I also have four kids and work 50 hrs a week so by the time they are all in bed by 9:40-10pm I am shattered. In the morning we are up at 6:30 and kids up at 7 but in that half an hour I have to get ready.

For us the desire is there, still fancy each other, love sex etc but if we manage once a week.is a miracle.

It's all about chemistry. I was with someone once where I wanted sex with them all the time. Every day, sometimes twice, sometimes more. I have only ever felt like that about one person