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He has put my family in danger - I can't believe it

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user1490044978 · 23/04/2017 14:04

Long story short, I have been in a relationship with this man for 18 months and throughout the majority of that time was being harassed via email by his 'ex', the mother of his children. He has sworn on many occasion that there is no truth to anything she said and that she was just a little crazy.... turns out he is a master liar and has actually been with her all along! We broke up upon this discovery but her harassment of me has continued... she sends messages calling me a slag and whore and says that he is telling her that I was a prostitute who has been blackmailing him. Usually I stay silent but finally I had enough and decided to tell her the truth and provide evidence to prove that what he was saying was entirely untrue. Initially she thanked me and I hoped it would be the last I heard from her... sadly not, the man in question has given her my home address and she emailed me again making threats of violence against myself AND my children!!!!!!!!!!

I am disgusted that he could do that to my children and make us unsafe in our own home...

This was the first man I let in after my marriage ended... what a fool I was to trust him!

WWYD?????

OP posts:
SandyY2K · 23/04/2017 23:51

Police have I.T forensic computer experts who would be able to look into this.

Take this very very seriously.

Cricrichan · 24/04/2017 01:49

How scary! Let the police deal with her. Hopefully they'll be able to message her or contact the local police.

user1490044978 · 24/04/2017 20:50

Just wanted to take a moment to thank you all for your advise and give you an update.

I reported it and handed the emails over to the police who are treating it as harassment. Hopefully that doesn't 'poke the bear' any further.

They said to not respond to anything, pass any further threats to them and they would keep me updated but, they did say it was the absolute right thing to do in reporting it.

Again, thank you all... my door is dead bolted and now I just wait and hope it was empty threats !

OP posts:
anastasia38494032010 · 25/04/2017 05:42

Not sure where you live but CCTV or other sort of surveillance cameras might be a good idea, together with a security alarm or something. Keep us posted OP!

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