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Another baby or leave

52 replies

Gloworm11 · 17/04/2017 22:20

I have been given a deadline for having another baby or else I have to leave. We aren't married (his choice, he doesn't believe in it) and property etc is all in his name as he is the higher wage earner. We have 2 beautiful children but he wants 2 more. I have managed to bring him round to one more but to have no more for him is not an option. I have extremely traumatic pregnancies and he work away every week so I would have no help. I feel so helpless and vulnerable because if I don't have another child with him I will have to find somewhere else to live with the children. It's a black and white as that for him. I'm gutted :(

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MrsDustyBusty · 20/04/2017 20:19

Have I got this right? If you don't have another baby he wants to kick you and the children you do have out and then get them from you using the courts?

Yeah, I like his chances.

TheUpsideDown · 20/04/2017 20:33

Good lord, I've heard it all now. Produce more children or fuck off.

This is beyond repulsive.

I know its easy for me to say LTB, and I rarely do say it. But seriously, for the love of god.... LTB!

As others have said, start making secret plans to get the hell out. Contacting Womens Aid is good advice too.

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