Hi, I'm a long time lurker, never posted before.
I'm 61, husband same age, been married 11 years, together for 17, second time round for us both.
Last night, we watched TV, chatted, normal evening really. I was knackered and went to bed at 10pm, slept until 5am when he came to bed, saying he'd fallen asleep downstairs. He's done this before (and so have I
) but never so late.
I got up to let the dog out at 6, sat downstairs with a cup of tea, don't know what made me look but I checked his iPad. He'd registered (and paid) on an online dating site at 2am and been online until 5am when he came to bed.
He didn't wake up till after 10am, and was very "off" with me, avoided conversation and obviously didn't want to be in the same room as me. I went out for the afternoon.
This evening it's all fine, chatting away. I've not confronted him, my gut reaction is to keep quiet for now, but get my ducks in a row.
To be honest, I'd be perfectly happy if he went off with someone else, poor cow that she'd be.
Just wondering WWYD