In a nutshell have been chatting to a guy for a while now, we have been friends about 3 years but the last few months he has told me he has always had feelings for me and wants to pursue a relationship.
We live opposite ends of the country but he thinks we could overcome this and see each other when we can.
He had an online friendship with a married woman on social media about a year and a half ago and since she has found out about us she has been creating fake profiles to make me think they are still talking.
He says not but when I question him about this on the phone he goes silent ...or sometimes the phone loses connection.
I just get the feeling he is putting me on hold and maybe answering a call or messaging her.
He has blocked me about 4 times now and each time he says it is because it is painful to be around me and he can't deal with the accusations when he is not talking to this woman .
It's just at times on social media the posts seem to relate to things we have discussed recently ...how would she know this .....
He says it is just coincidence, but my instinct tells me differently.
I don't understand why this woman keeps creating these profiles ....to get at him through me...because she wants him ....just game playing .
Her says he is not involved in any of this.
I was reading up about stonewalling and wondering if is silent treatment to me is when I am getting close to finding out that they are still talking ....
I know I may sound paranoid and this is quite petty in the big scheme of things but the groups I admin on social media and have been a lifeline to me and her constant fake profiles and sarcastic quotes/songs are making me wonder if this guy is still talking to her and I am a smokescreen as she is married.