Okay....I found some text messages on husbands phone last week while on holiday to 3 different mobile numbers all with the same message 'Are you available?'. Messages all sent a few evenings before when husband had stayed in a hotel for the night as we'd had an argument and he'd stormed out.
Turns out all three numbers were to local escorts/ prostitutes. No text message responses received, just outgoing. I didn't check his call log as couldn't think straight.
I was dumbfounded. On confronting him he admitted he had looked but had been so drunk/ off his face on coke that he couldn't remember even looking (hence why hadn't deleted numbers) and swore blind that this had never happened before and nothing had become of it.
I dont know what to believe. We were on holiday when I made this discovery so after trying to pack him off home (no flights) I eventually had to suck it up and put on a brave face for the kids for the rest of the week.
There are other problems in our marriage such as his drinking and drug taking so kids and I are staying with family now we're home so I can sort my head out.
He's claiming this is all blown out of proportion.
Anyone got any experience? Advice? Gut instinct? As mine is way way off.