Heart broken

[Clairep83]

My husband of 12 years and 2 children has just told me he doesn't have feelings for me anymore sad

How horrible to sleep with you last night before todays announcement. He had sex with you knowing he was leaving. That alone shows how little he respects you. If hes prepared to leave his child, hes shown his true colours. I would strongly suggest hes having sex elsewhere, that he will give it a go then come back begging once hes realised the hobeymoon bit wears off. Some women take them back, i could not. You need to emotionally detach from him now to plan your life as you cannot trust his intentions any more. Sorry.

Sorry just read update. Yes they are shagging. You dont leave a marriage for 'feelings alone'. Now you know get thee to a solicitor and dont communicate anything except the necessary. I would have to move i think what an utter selfish idiot and there are no words for her. So sorry its shit.

Wow. They certainly do deserve each other
for you

Everyone can't believe he left me for her therenin utter shock thiughtbhe would go for some attractive slim blonde with a good career but a woman whonis 3x the size of me and a dirty tramp who has nothing going for her!!!! I can't understand it when I have shown her picture to friends and family they said it looks like his mother!!!! 😂😂😂😂 xxx

Did he move out in Dec?
How are you, my love? You sound amazing x

That's crap.
How are you doing?

God what a big cliché he is.

How are you doing?

Oh Claire I'm so sorry.
Mine also told me there was nobody else. Looked me in the eye as he told me so! His phone records told a different story!
Don't compare yourself to her. She's just different is all. They just get bored. He'll regret it one day.
Take care of yourself and go low contact. Xx

My recent Ex was trying to (and now is) shagging a woman about 3" shorter than me and about 2 stone heavier.
After he'd told me I'd put on weight (basically getting fat)

None of it makes any sense.
It won't ever make any sense.
Don't compare yourself to her.
It's all about their dicks!

Did he move out?

Yes moved out 13th Jan. Told me there was no one else then 3 wks ago told me we needed talk so I went and met him. He told me he had feelings for her and then begged to come home crying screaming pleading for forgiveness, I said no. The day after he said he never meant any of it. I can see them sneaking around when her children have gone there dads. I got her the job working with him she was my best friend. She is just a dirty fat tramp who I hope he cheats on too! He can have her if he would rather lower his expectations then that's fine. I've lost 3st since he left. I wouldn't mind he use to call her saying her habits and her parenting were disgusting ha ha and he couldn't stand her parents. I hope they thy pay for what they have done.

Karma will get them, don't you worry about that.

Live an honest life with your DC and you'll get through it, I know you will.

These men become bored and regress to an immature emotional state in need of teenage excitement. It's disgusting to be honest. And the whole dishonesty just adds to the carnage.

I know you must hate her but she wasnt the married one. Appearance has nothing to do with it and is a shallow judgement although i get you are mad. Appearances aside, being unattractive does not win over stroking someones ego and admiring and loving the. It is a fantasy away from ordinary life
As relationships progress it isnt looks that matter so much as personality and connection. Whilst she is 'not your level' her self esteem is prob on the floor and your dp has recognised this and gone for her.
The problem is 100 percent his. He knew what he was doing. Blame him not her

Could these men be any more predictable; 9 times out of 10 there is OW or at the very least they want to go shag someone else; fuck that, goodbye and good riddance.

She knew he was married to me, she has been my best friend for 2 years and she has been seeing him behind my back!!! They are both to blame but the fact that she is putting me through what she has recently been through is disgusting and she should have put my husband in his place. Why carry it on now, sneaking around and denying it. I have the proof they are. They disgust me!!!!

What a horrible way to be, to act, to treat others; good riddance OP; they have to live with being horrible nasty people; that won't ever change!

I know it must be devastating but you will get better in time, slowly but surely.

Yes that sucks shes your best friend. Yes she shouldnt have led him on. But youre blaming the wrong person. Your husband has chosen to shag someone else. He hasnt even picked someone discrete, he has shat at his own doorstep and humiliated you. Shes still a two faced cow tho. Just wait tho, it wont last long and she will look stupid when he comes back begging you. You will have the last laugh just bide your time.