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Partner not home and its 8.30am

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westeringhome · 18/12/2016 08:44

Morning all, my partner of 4 years went to help his dad yesterday and the last contact I had was at 10pm when he said he was having beer with his mate and wouldn't be long. Fast forward to 5am and I texted him to ask if all was ok. No reply. I'm now up with the baby and toddler, still no sign. He has done this once before and I found out where he was by asking his dad, who told me he he was at his and hadn't been able to get a taxi home. No-one thought to let me know. I gave him hot tongue for that one. I suspect same thing this time but I cba chasing to find out. Would you bother or just wait?? Supposed to be having early Christmas dinner at his dad's today but after this I don't feel like it. What would you do?

OP posts:
Cary2012 · 19/12/2016 20:04

It's about respect.
Yes, he's his own person, he's an adult, of course he can stay out all night.
But he should have kept you in the loop, because he knows you needed to know he was ok.
But he didn't, so don't brush this aside.

PollytheDolly · 19/12/2016 20:13

I'd rip him a new one. It's unacceptable behaviour.

This

Princesspinkgirl · 19/12/2016 21:32

Unacceptable on his behalf I wouldn't let my partner do this once let alone twice

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