I am well aware that it takes two to make a baby. DH reassured me he would get the snip and that it would be fine to remove my extremely problematic mirena coil that caused me so much misery. Had a few excuses as to why it hadn't happened yet, on a wait list...wrong code given by gp etc etc. My cycle was obviously more messed up than I thought, and now I'm seven months pregnant with my third child, with a gap of a decade between the youngest and this baby. I didn't want another baby, but he was happy and persuaded me to keep it. I'm really hoping that in time I will come to be happy about this baby, and once he's here I will love him and be grateful. But at this moment I'm really struggling because I (unreasonably I know) blame him for this situation. I have friends whose husbands got it done with no issues. He now has prostate problems and probably won't be able to have the snip for a few months at least, or will use it as yet another reason why he can't. I'm nearly 40 btw, I don't want to start any more contraception as I feel I've done my bit. I know i'm being awful. I just can't seem to help myself feeling this way :(
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