Husband gave me an std

[MrsAC1]

I'm really confused and don't know what to do. Have just found out my husband has cheated on me. The only reason he told me was that he has given me an std. It's been a difficult year as we had a baby in April but I really didn't expect this. I don't know where to go from here.

I'd be surprised if it were a one off. Pub trade notorious for affairs.

He doesn't sound at all remorseful or as if he cares about you or babies health.

I agree it's HIM that's ruined HIS kids Christmas not you.

On health side are you breastfeeding? If so it would end good to check with dr re transmitting infection to baby or any likely effects of medication as some for sti's are not recommended with breastfeeding.

He only told you because he gave you a std.

How many others might he have slept with who didn't have stds?

Yet another unlucky man who got caught out the very first time he played away

Sorry you are going through this OP. You've already said he's using you for free childcare which he has evidently proved. What an utter scumbag he is.

How unlucky of him. Cheats once and gets the gift that keeps on giving...
I smell shite.
Kick the sexually incontinent bastard out. Looking after his own kids ought to slow down his sex life.

The number of women who come on here and say their other halves got caught after just the one time!

Chances are it is more likely not the first time or he is very very unlucky.

What sort of selfish bastard has unprotected sex on a ONS cheating? The lowest form of pond life who doesn't care about how it will affect anyone but him.