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Making my way home. Are you home yet?

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Inexperiencedchick · 02/11/2016 20:48

Just that really.
How should I understand this question?

We are exchanging messages via OLD website. I haven't given my number yet and he hasn't asked to meet up.
This question is from today... Am I right to be cautious or should I accept it as normal. Am I overreacting?

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madgingermunchkin · 03/11/2016 22:31

Maybe it's best you put online dating on the back burner for a bit? You're not being fair on yourself, let alone anyone else.

Why on earth would you feel you "owed" anyone whom asked you what you'd eaten? If you won't tell him that, I seriously doubt you'd tell him about your hobbies and interests, because that's much more personal.

What do you want him to do? Ask about the weather? It sounds like conversations with you could be like trying to get blood out of a stone.

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MouseLove · 03/11/2016 22:43

Sooooooooo... I'm going to ask it.

We're you home?*
Grin

*i don't have your address.

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Inexperiencedchick · 04/11/2016 00:30

Mouse LOL

That's hilarious 😂

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CocoaX · 04/11/2016 06:24

Actually no, I don't think hobbies and interests are much more personal than what you put inside your body. But hopefully you will find someone you feel comfortable with OP Flowers

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Inexperiencedchick · 04/11/2016 13:04

Thank you Cocoa, this is what it is...

Seems he is interested in chatting with me. Doesn't care about making some moves... Realised it yesterday.
So why ask "Are you home yet?!"

I am still on OLD but not desperate... If I meet someone great, if I don't I will stay on my own.
Never had a relationship and want to try, that's why I'm there.... Blush

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