I have a DP been together for 5 years, I've recently been diagnosed with CFS, I have continence issues, I wet myself regularly despite wearing adult nappies having medication & going to see urology, I left my last job because I kept wetting myself & the chronic fatigue. DP has a 55k high paying job, my health has took a turn for the worse recently I now have adult social care coming for 2 hours per day to help me shower, clean the house, tidy, cook meals I take DD to nursery who is 3 then sleep the rest of the day. DF is telling me I need to make money he is refusing to pay for my car which he has been using aswell he has bought two houses while we have been together neither have been in my name. He calls me lazy keeps yelling at me to get a job when I don't feel ready to work all my energy goes on dd & I have adult social care payments so it's not like i'm making it up!
He won't buy me any clothes if we go food shopping he complains if I buy a 30p tin of sweetcorn instead of frozen sweetcorn. I told him I was leaving him last week I applied for the housing register band c but he keeps telling me to stay how it's bad for DD how he loves me etc, I need to claim benefits just so i can buy clothes and keep on top of payments. he's also buying a 9k car out of savings & going on a skiing holiday on his own he says he works hard & deserves it. I'm not sure how other peoples relationships work? I just can't believe how uncompassionate he is he won't give me any time to try get better.