2 days ago Dh had a phone interview for a really good job. After the interview he said he had been offered a trial and they wanted him to stay over and he would come home the following morning. He's a chef so he would be working in the evening and the job is at a hotel but it seems odd that they want him to stay. He's said they are insistent (hinted that if he didn't then he wouldn't get the job).
Inhad pnd after ds1 was born and infound out he was chatting to a girl from work, in one message he sent he said he regretted marrying and was only staying because of Ds. He says nothing happend but he deleted all the messages so i never saw tgem, i only saw the one so i dont know what else was said etc. I now have pnd after ds2s birth and im worried its starting all over again (with someone different). He also slipped up and mentioned being at the pub the other day when I thought he was working late, he said he had gone with a guy from work and was then giving the guy a lift butnhendodnt sound convincing and when unmentioned it a few days later a couple of facts changed.
Am I bring overly suspicious or is something going on.