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Ready to date but not yet waste opportunity by being exclusive

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SortingStuffStill · 07/09/2016 17:16

Thought i'd post my own thread as a newbie and going mad here. Got 3 potential irons, met all at least once so vetted 😊 All attractive in v different ways. Mr Eligible seemed keen but cooling slightly and think he may be on rebound a little (;marriage ended over a year ago) , strong chemistry but not anywhere near my typical preferred body type. He is lovely though and very snappable up ifykwim. Reckon we might be each others transition people, not sure got the heart to see him around with someone else in future! We have friends in common and fairly small town.
Meanwhile MrTall is quite attractive, v bright and intriguing. V complicated family though. Mr Dangerous is a vibe thing - overpowering on spiritual and physical level but he can be a player, admitted as such. Taken a while to go thro profiles, message etc and selfishly seems a shame not to see how things go with other 2 also. But how?? Feel guilty and likely to be seen out if i do.

Horrendous split from h 5 months ago, marriage emotionally/sexually dead for years but still.

Any advice please?

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SortingStuffStill · 07/09/2016 21:48

And do partly agree. Huge issue with ex as i at least never felt much chemistry. Really downplayed it and meant no 'glue' to help us through the badxtimes

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PsychedelicSheep · 07/09/2016 21:49

Yeah was the same with me and exh

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SortingStuffStill · 08/09/2016 08:12

So lesson learnt then? Agree but cant bring myself to do a trial sleep with every potential guy. Not judging anyone else, just my choice.

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