I'm just wondering if you would think this sounds like a porn addiction?
I've been unhappy with mine and my oh sex life for a lot of our relationship. I'm a once every day or every other kind of person. For him it seems once a week or every 10 days is enough. I explain I'd like it to be more often but always met with excuses, tired/his weight/stressed etc. He stays up late most nights and seems to keen to pack me off to bed if i stay up late with him. "Aren't you tired?" Etc. I often wake up at 1 or 2am and he's still downstairs. After being him suggesting I go to bed the other day, I woke up as usual to him not being there. I could hear that he was masturbating downstairs. Something in me just snapped. I was unreasonable, I know. I confronted him, explained how I know he stays up late most nights to watch porn, that his lack of interest in me sexually is ruining my self esteem, and how sexually unfulfilled I feel. I did explode bit this has been an issue for a long time. He said he doesn't watch it all the time, made excuses said he'd try more. We had sex three times that week. But low and behold it's been two weeks since the last time. I have checked hos phone in the past (I know this is bad) and he rarely goes more then a couple of days without watching porn. I feel puts far too much of sexual energy into his own solo sexual release and not enough effort into our sex life. To top it all off when we do have sex he's usually lazy and there is little to no foreplay. At times its been obvious he's viewed porn and come with his erection from the porn and had sex with me. I caught him as he forgot to switch the telly off. Sorry to ramble. Does this sound like he may have a problem?