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I need some MN advice on this new man

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asconfusedasever · 20/08/2016 22:52

I've had a shit time with men lately, have name changed for this.

So this guy gave me his number and I contacted him. We had a coffee date and a sex date. Initially I thought he'd be fun to fuck to get over my previous relationship disaster!

However this guy has turned out to be lovely, buys me flowers, buys me gifts, rings every day, very open about his relationships, what he wants etc.

He's just very different to me intellectually, I'm professional, have my own house etc. He's dyslexic, didn't do well in school, lives with his cousin, has little money and a job with no prospects.
We're not on the same wavelength at all and I just worry how a relationship like that could last

Some of my less nice friends think I should just enjoy him for sex
Others think I should give him a chance because he's genuine, kind and honest and that's certainly been lacking in my previous relationships

I'd like some opinions please

OP posts:
MiddleClassProblem · 22/08/2016 09:50

Gosh, I can't think of a job that someone could have that I would dump them as a result unless it was illegal. If he had a shit work ethic, no matter he role, that would be unattractive to me.

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