Im going to have an affair.

[Tyedye]

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good for you, good luck with it

okay

if you leave your p first, then it's not really an affair is it?

Doesn't sound like an affair if you are leaving one man who is a nob and starting up with another, who isn't...sounds like a positive life decision...

You ARE leaving dp A S A P aren't you...?

its not really an affair if you are leaving your current man to be with someone else, is it? good luck to you. if you are leaving to be in a better situation then no, yuo're not crackers. you'd be crackers if you were posting to say im in an abusinve relationship with a man who kicks me round the kitchen and im staying put.

Why not finish the relationship first? Spend some time getting your life and your kids life back together before throwing yourself into antoher relationship.

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Why not just end your bad relationship first??

You may not have guilt now but when it turns nasty and ytour new gorgeous man gets frightened off or beat up....you may feel horrible!

or maybe not....

hope it all works out for you...

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Good luck Tyedye. I've read your story on other threads and you deserve all the happiness you can get. Just tread carefully, though, won't you, and put yourself first?

Oh I see you are in the process of splitting up anyways?

Good luck, I read a thread of yours around xmas time, you deserve some happiness..

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SOunds like you deserve to find some happiness.

Glad to hear it, Tyedye!

Best wishes.

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TYedye: just FYI unless you actually are considering a career as a sex worker, no one has the 'right' to shag you when you don't want them to (and not even if one is a sex worker, actually). ~Good luck for the future.

Good luck tyedye Hope it all works out for you.

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sounds like you have had / are having a horrid time. I wish you a better future.

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You've not met him the flesh yet????

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