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He's a much older married man and has a strong attraction towards me, what do i do im also married?

60 replies

searchingforanswers006 · 08/07/2016 19:23

It all started about a month or two ago when I met him for the first time.. His father, my husband's best friend, fell very ill and eventually died.
In the process I helped taking care of his father during end of life care.
At first we really wouldn't talk then as time went by, he started to open up about everything.. His emotion all over the place because of seeing his father dying.. He's around 50 I'm 31.. He says I remind him of his mother (she passed a few years back.) and he told a mutual friend I have a lot in common w his wife actually.. She's really nice btw. It wouldn't be nothing if it wasn't that everytime we say goodbye he has to hug me and almost he doesn't want let go... He would seat next to me, stare at me and give me flirty looks.. Even my husband, that he can be naive at times, he's referred to how weird how we've "connected" on a different level.. I love my husband deeply and wont cheat on him but I find myself thinking bout this guy non stop.. I almost feel motherly towards him like I wanna take care of him, is that too weird??? ( and now he wants to move from 7 hours away to his dad's house 6 minutes away ) HELP!!

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RJnomore1 · 08/07/2016 23:12

Now now, inter generational friendships are a good thing you nasty lot.

However op what are you looking for us to tell you? Go ahead and shag him?

You KNOW this completely truthful situation cannot end well.

cbigs · 08/07/2016 23:20
Hmm
angryangryyoungwoman · 08/07/2016 23:23

I wish I was high.
This is pretty funny straight though anyway

fakenamefornow · 08/07/2016 23:34

You don't need drugs if you've got this thread.

Please though, once again op, just to clarify.

Your husband (31) had a best friend who was 91 (recently died) what sort of things did they like to do together?
When did the 50yo start being your husband's best friend? Was it after his dad died, or were the three of them all best friends together?

fakenamefornow · 08/07/2016 23:35

Sorry to be distracted by your husband's friendships and not focusing on you feelings for a married man.

SandyY2K · 08/07/2016 23:38

Very confusing.

But I reckon OP has made some typos and omitted key words.

The bestie is the 50 year old (I think)

How you as a 31 year old remind him of his mum is confusing - unless in your character. I don't think I'd see that as a complement in a romantic way.

He's married.
Your married.
He's your DHs best mate.

There's no more to say. Keep your distance.

SomeDaysIDontGiveAMonkeys · 08/07/2016 23:40

Perlman GrinGrinGrinGrin

By had way I think OP has left the building.

MonkeysWAGMug · 08/07/2016 23:40

Grin fakename

MonkeysWAGMug · 08/07/2016 23:53

By had way I think OP has left the building.

Probably making goat stew...

PortiaCastis · 09/07/2016 00:01

OP has nipped down to Steptoes yard for a 3 some. The. old nag is nieghing in the background because he wants to join in

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