We've waited until exams finished but tomorrow we're telling them we're splitting up after nearly 20 years of marriage. It's my decision as I can't contemplate feeling this unhappy for the rest of my life.
I'm willing to be the 'baddie' in the situation (although I have worked SO hard to keep the family together as they grew up) but I'm still scared they'll reject me.
They all have very different personalities so we've agreed to tell them separately as I don't want the one with the most dominant personality to set the tone for how the others should react.
They're two older teenagers and a 'tween'.
I'd appreciate any advice to make it as painless as possible for them.
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Tomorrow we tell the DCs that we're separating
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splittingup · 25/06/2016 10:49
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