Finally found evidence of dp cheating

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Been together 10 years and last night found he has been having an affair for 6 months+. Ow is also married.
I'm just so numb right now, I've had feelings about him cheating before but could never find the evidence/ he could talk his way out of whatever so it was always put to the back of my mind but today I've had at least this ow confirmed.
I know I need to ltb, but I'm over half way through our first pregnancy (don't want to out myself) and totally in love with him.
Ow knows I'm pregnant and has kids herself so knows how difficult pregnancy can get. How can a woman do this to another woman? How can my dp that I love so much and would do anything for do this to me? My whole plan for a family life is ruined forever, as is a happy experience of having my first baby.
I just don't know what to do I'm so numb and heartbroken at the same time.
Has anyone been through this as I really need a hand hold.

Sorry OP, I think you are grasping at straw here, you have told us you have suspected him cheating throughout your relationship but have never found the proof, your gut is all the proof you need.

So what if you raise your daughter alone, I've done it and loved it, I certainly wouldn't feel good about having a baby with a serial cheater as a partner cos that's what he is however horrible that is to read.

If you blame the OW you might as well all the others that I no doubt imagine he's been carrying on with.

You actually have a great opportunity here to start your life afresh with no dirty in it cos he's full of it - if you can go home and be around your family and friends - I just don't see him changing, he's been shagging her since you got pregnant for god's sake, why would he stop, there will be other opportunities and do you really want to spend the future checking up on him when you could be enjoying your daughter, it's not as hard as you think and at least your head would be free from worry!