I have caught my DH out on a lie not a massive one but one that has shook me enough.
I was away with friends overnight two months ago that day I heard from
DH sporadically he told me he was in house chilling. I tried to ring him a few times and no answer. My mum had DC as she had an activity she was bringing her too but I assumed DH would collect her later he didn't. When I got home I asked him what he had done he said nothing had spent day n house alone enjoying the peace and quiet. I just knew something didn't add up.
He has been quiet recently and we have been arguing. Last night I looked at his phone and there was nothing suspicious. I decided to look at his locations and seen that the day I was away he was in a seaside town about two hours from us. I confronted him and he said he just went a drive and didn't tell me because he knew I'd jump to conclusions. We had a long talk and he said about us arguing is making him unhappy etc and we did seem to get somewhere but this lie doesn't sit right with me.
In terms of OW there was nothing on his phone he is always with us if not in work. He doesn't go out on his own but I don't know why lie. Any views on this?