Did your husband tell you he loved you on your wedding day?

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Mine didn't. Anyone else experience the same? Did it/does it bother you?

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Yes - probably 20 times. He is someone that says it a lot though!

Wow just read your other thread and was horrified OP your relationship sounds awful. Are you still paying your way out of savings?? I don't think whether or not he said he loved you on your wedding day is really the issue here.

Sounds like the wedding day issue is the tip of the iceberg OP. How are you?

Things have improved slightly since then, he still hasn't come up to bed with me but he is making more effort to spend time with us at the weekends. I did reduce my financial contribution (it just doesn't feel right me not paying anything) and he increased his contribution so things are little better but I still feel low about things.

I think so but I remember he didn't tell
me I looked beautiful all day, which pissed me off a bit as I had made quite an effort, and also he wouldn't look at me throughout the service and so I held his hand really tight in case he tried to run. He didn't and here we are nearly 9 years on

Do you know how you want to move forward? You're obviously not happy still. This must all be weighing heavily on your mind.