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I think Giraffe has been incredibly strong this week, she has ended a relationship, i think she needs to talk about it too

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fairyfly · 12/01/2007 22:14

She is such a wonderful woman ( honestly) amazing fab woman and she has had the gut to walk away from a man she love as it was doing her no good.

I think it would be incredibly cathartic for her if she could offload on here.

Remind her that if she needed to leave it, if she has been upset, if she has been confused, it's about time to leave anyway.

THankyou.

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giraffeski · 14/01/2007 11:45

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giraffeski · 14/01/2007 12:30

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MamazonAKAfatty · 14/01/2007 12:37

FF - you dont want to speak t him, you just think you do.

when we miss someone our minds only ever think of the good things about them...our memory is in a rose tinted cage i think.

you need to make yourself think of all the paoin he has caused you. Like Giraffski is doing you NEED to hate him.
He doesn't deserve you and you ARE better off without him.

Gski- I still don't answer my phone unless i am expecting a call. i wait and then dial 1471 an ring the person back. its sounds silly but just hearing his voice would make me a nervous wreck so i am over carefull about it all.
I also think your right that he will soon be fed up of playing nice and as son as he realises that it isn't workign he will trun straight back into the agressive man he was before.

stay strong the pair of you

katierocket · 14/01/2007 13:40

LOL at the cheesey song he sent you - what a saddo. I agree, don't answer the phone and screen your calls.

I haven't had the baby yet, it was due yesterday and yes, it turned which I was really pleased about. The book was great, thanks again.

giraffeski · 14/01/2007 17:39

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katierocket · 15/01/2007 09:33

No, no, that's what he wants you to feel. How are you feeling today?

OrmIrian · 15/01/2007 12:19

Well done Giraffe - stick to your guns!!!

piglit · 15/01/2007 12:29

When I split up with my xp (years ago now) I changed his name on my phone to "wanker". Every time he rang me/texted me to plead with me to go back to him my phone displayed "wanker". No real help for you G but it is marvellously cathartic.

expatinscotland · 15/01/2007 12:37

I did this, too, piglit! Only I used 'f*&kface'.

That always made me giggle and instantly improved my mood.

Even my pals took to calling him 'f&^face'.

piglit · 15/01/2007 12:39

Exactly expat. "Small steps will get you there in the end" as my best friend used to say.....

giraffeski · 15/01/2007 19:33

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MrsGordonRamsay · 15/01/2007 19:51

Oh come on.......

I know........ he is standing out side your bedroom window, butt naked except for a rose between his arse cheeks. Playing the guitar.

giraffeski · 15/01/2007 22:12

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SherlockLGJ · 15/01/2007 22:15

Control freak............

Run Gski, run.

giraffeski · 15/01/2007 22:19

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giraffeski · 15/01/2007 22:22

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SherlockLGJ · 15/01/2007 22:22

Is this the round the world guy ??

He sounds unhinged, TBH, FFS his mother agrees with you re NPD.

Gski, I would stay away from him, he sounds like a male bunny boiler.

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