OMG is he cheating?

[newworldnow]

.just snooped on his phone(be patient) and saw that he has deleted location history for Saturday day and night. well he must have done because there's history for every other day.
This is important because I went out with friends and got tipsy and got home an went straight to bed.
Only notice him in the morning and think everything ok. Go for breakfast and his phone has no charge. He always, always charges his phone at night. Odd I think.
Go shopping and lunch emotionally distant. When I say cant find anything to buy he says well these clothes are for unrealistic 25 year olds. Odd thing to say. What should I wear then? A sack? Dick.
Still hasn't dawned on me then we have sex and he takes ages?
Then has been going to loo with phone etc, WTF?
Thing is don't know how to handle this. Haven't said anything yet.
Also he made a point of telling me he went out for a coffee when I went to bed and went to bed....has own room due to snoring......at 9.30.
Wondering if I have been made a total fool of. Won't drink again(celebration one off). For all I know he could have been out all night.

Agree that the location history is not always accurate. Just checked mine and apparently I was somewhere in Germany on 9th April. Which I most definitely was not!

So.... I asked him as in friendly mood. He had a look and we both agreed it was odd. I said you could have deleted something and then he started raising his voice saying I am questioning his answer. Like......how dare ? Stayed calm and asked him to stop the eye rolling contempt and said there is no need for this I just asked.

He followed me round and I kept quiet. Then and this is odd he began crying saying I never showed him any affection and I was a drunk. I asked him to stop turning it round on me.

Bloody hell I only asked. If I ask anything since he cheated he reacts like a victim.

I'm so sorry, he sounds like and emotional abuser as well as a cheat. Raising his voice, eye rolling, then crying that he never gets any affection and your a drunk and he is the victim? Classic emotional abuser. For gods sake don't feel sorry for him and his pretend crying!

You said he is a recovering sex addict who has cheated on you in the past. What's the point in being with someone like that? Sounds like abject misery, and what a role model for your child.

You know it's time to send him on his way and I wish you all the best for the future. X

Wow! Do emotional abusers know what they're doing? I actually said to him that its as if he s trying to teach me not to ask questions. WTF

I don't feel sorry for the pretend crying just baffled. What a prince. What a dick.

So what now?

Yes, he knows exactly what he's doing.

And I'll say it again - sexual addiction my arse. He's just a nasty selfish dickhead who cheated on you - no more or less.

He's a sex addict in recovery?

Er ok, that must be complicated.

Yeah, I don't have much sympathy for anyone who calls themselves a sex addict as an excuse for cheating. It's just damnright cruelty. Especially if he makes it out to be your fault by crying that you don't give him enough attention!
He knows what he is doing.