Basically around a month ago I added a photo of myself and my sister to my Google account on my tablet, I had this photo elsewhere and I liked it. I didn't realize that when I had set up my android tablet I had also set up a Google plus account, so when I added the picture to my google account it also changed it on all my Google services.
A few days later I got notifications from Google plus, mostly from men adding me or writing to me asking me who I am etc. So I worked out how I could block these people then I changed how my name appears on there and removed my picture but I still got a couple of people writing to me so I basically told them to leave me alone etc. I have had nothing since and thought I had sorted it out until my husband pointed out this morning that I had messages from people, it would seem from people who had previously tried to talk to me asking me where I am.
Now my husband is upset thinking that I have been chatting to men online, when that is not the case. He is hurt and understandably so, if I had seen the same on his phone I would also assume that he was up to no good.
The truth is, I have nothing to hide, the whole family use the tablet. This has basically all come about because 1. I signed up to everything without checking when setting up my tablet. 2. I added a pic that went public 3. I responded to the idiots trying to talk to me and I didn't tell my hubby about it at the time.
I think that's what has upset him too, the fact that I didn't tell him about it in the first place. I should have done but I felt stupid, embarrassed and I worried that he would go mad. However now in hind sight it would have just been better if I'd told him in the first place because now we both feel rubbish and I don't think he will ever feel the same about me again.
I would never do anything to intentionally hurt my hubby / family they are my world.