Am I right in believing he was taking me for a mug?

[unlucky4ever]

Basically a couple of days ago I felt in the mood for some fun. Me and him don't live together. I wanted him to come over. I texted him to tell him that. I had seen he was posting on some website about a football game around the time I asked. Anyway, I had a feeling he would turn me down because he wanted to watch that. Mind you, I had already told him earlier in the day about meeting up and he had said that was ok and to let him know when.
He first said it had gotten too late by the time I decided to let him know and then he came up with this excuse that it was the holy week (he is religious but not to that extent) and he went on about how he was surprised that I would get him to do something sexual on the days Christ was tortured and killed. I was convinced it was all an excuse as I had seen him post about a football game. He just didn't want to come over because he wanted to watch that. I did tell him I thought it was an excuse but he just said if I was being serious. Anyway, I told him on purpose to come over all the same and we wouldn't do anything sexual but he didn't want to that either which reinforced my idea that that was just a lie.

I got angry also when later on I saw him post comments about girls and their milky bags and so on! I didn't tell him only because he doesn't like me browsing that website where he posts and I didn't want to have to admit I went on there to check on his activity.

I know for a fact he was taking me for a mug. I let him think in the end that I believed his excuse but now I'm left wondering if this means I can't trust this guy because he's an obvious liar (ah he denied being on that website right after I had just seen him post comments on it) and hypocrite (wanted to make me feel bad for wanting to have sex when he himself is posting sexual comments). The religious stuff didn't come out of nowhere. He is spiritual but not at that level I'm sure.

I'm not ashamed for checking what he does as my sixth sense was obviously right in telling me I can't trust this guy. What do you think about it?

He's awful. And he hates women.

Please leave him.

He's a nob with double standards. I can't see what you find attractive unless you like the game playing.

Please raise your standards. This is all so tawdry and depressing. And milky bags made me feel nauseous.

If you call yourself 'unlucky4ever', I expect you're used to being in relationships with twats. What you put out you attract sometimes...
You need to take a long hard look at your boundaries, expectations and obviously low self esteem.

Is he the best you can get??

You may think that's really mean of me, but he is a total jerk. Surely you have more self respect than to continue having anything to do with such a piss poor excuse of a man?