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Would you tell her?

37 replies

Kimberley00001 · 19/03/2016 07:03

Please see the earlier thread www.mumsnet.com/Talk/am_i_being_unreasonable/2592858-To-tell-his-gf

OP posts:
Effendi · 19/03/2016 09:43

What a bizarre, attention seeking thread.

haveacupoftea · 19/03/2016 09:56

I won't go into detail about what I think of sad little girls like you who deliberately try to break up relationship. But you can rest assured that the girlfriend knows her other half isn't a saint, and you're no threat to her after your pathetic behaviour.

Now grow up and move on.

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Kimberley00001 · 19/03/2016 10:23

I don't think I need to tell her tbh, the damage is done their relationship has no solid foundation. I'm not a silly little girl, but I was with this man. I won't be posting about him any more.

OP posts:
Effendi · 19/03/2016 10:24

Thank fuck for that.

TealLove · 19/03/2016 10:25

You are torturing yourself over the past.

gamerchick · 19/03/2016 10:37

Let it go OP. I would hazard a guess you've fried all of your friends heads with this. You've wasted a long time obsessing over this person. Let him go for your own sanity. The picture of satisfaction you have built up in your head won't be the reality.

goddessofsmallthings · 19/03/2016 17:47

lunar has it. You seem to think you have the power to make or break his relationship but, even though he allegedly shagged you more than once, my money's on him being able to convince his dp that you were nothing more than an easy lay who came on strong and led him to have a drunken moment of weakness, after which you effectively blackmailed him into continuing to see you by threatening to tell her.

Imo you should tell her as she deserves to know what a scumbag he is. Of course you won't come out of it well, but maybe it will teach you not to mess with another woman's man.

As for their relationship has no solid foundation, this is pure speculation on your part of the kind which is designed to make you feel smug and superior when in fact you should be feeling nothing except abject disgust with yourself.

Sofiathefirst2016 · 21/03/2016 21:10

Too me it seems as if you're scorned. If he'd had agreed to continue seeing you , you wouldn't have this grudge.

Hissy · 21/03/2016 21:22

Typical ow mentality... Craving the drama?

Take up BASE jumping or something.

Who cares about him? He's a scumbag.

Who cares about her? She is a cheat?

And you... You apparently were happy enough to go along with t while it suited.

Move on.

DraenorQueen · 21/03/2016 21:23

I won't be posting about him any more.
Thank fuck.

MistressDeeCee · 22/03/2016 01:21

I haven't clicked on the link but I remember you and your tedious banging on and on about this man. Aren't you the one who is good looking, but his current and all his previous girlfriends "look like Miranda off the tv?"

With your stunningly good looking self in comparison to other women I can't begin to understand why on earth this man dumped you, its all about looks after all, even that alone should have bound him to your side Hmm

Anyway you've been dumped so you've no choice but to accept it have you. Life goes on

TheNaze73 · 22/03/2016 10:01

I don't think he'll have given you a thought over all this. He's so not bothered. Don't let that, continue you to torture you. That's all these threads look like. Just reads as needy drama queen. Move on & put your energies into something positive rather than banging on about the past. You deserve better

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