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Stop me posting PA crap on social media !

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TwilightRabbit · 16/03/2016 15:18

Please help stop me posting passive aggressive shite on social media!

Just split up with DP - I ended it, but I still love him Blush. He' uses social media massively, whereas I can usually take it or leave it. He's been posting all sorts of crap, including 'meaningful'' life/break up quotes from Johnny Cash, whereas I have maintained a dignified silence Halo .
My fingers are itching to post something though, I don't know why. I'm desperate to post a band I'm listening to, which only he will 'get' .

I am aware how shit, pathetic, teenagery and needy this makes me sound. I am also aware I should ignore and block him. My excuse is that I'm heartsore.

Help me keep that finger off the 'Post' button!!

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Slowdecrease · 17/03/2016 15:37

Why did you finish it if you want him to fight for you? That was a bit daft.

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BunnyTyler · 17/03/2016 15:43

I like these two.
Not what you're looking for if you secretly want him to chase you though.

Stop me posting PA crap on social media !
Stop me posting PA crap on social media !
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TwilightRabbit · 17/03/2016 15:50

Oh my word, don't worry I won't post it lol! Not a cat in hell's chance!

And I finished it for a myriad of reasons, not because I don't love him. The fact that he didn't want to discuss us, or fight for us is hurtful - he just accepted my ending it (in part because he wouldn't discuss anything).

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LoisWilkersonsLastNerve · 17/03/2016 15:52

Oh what did you post? 'hey I just dropped a useless stitch'?. Can you be a passive aggressive knitter? Confused You'll get over him op. Flowers

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Slowdecrease · 17/03/2016 15:55

If it's any consolation OP, they rarely do, you're not alone. Love is all very nice but its not enough. Hey what about something like that? That totally works!!

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Fairylea · 17/03/2016 15:57

I posted a load of crap when I went through a difficult breakup. I don't regret any of it, sure I probably made a twat of myself but it felt good to get it out there! Everyone is a massive twat when they're in love anyway, I honestly think sometimes if it makes you feel better you should just do it! Grin

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Slowdecrease · 17/03/2016 15:58

What's so wrong with looking like a twat anyway....I say do what you need to Grin

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TwilightRabbit · 17/03/2016 16:03

Lois it was literally a picture of my knitting and saying spot the mistake - really dull ! Thank you for the flowers!

And Slow that's it isn't it? It just wasn't enough :(

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MadeMan · 18/03/2016 16:20

If you were to knit a lifelike voodoo doll of him and then skewer it through the crotch with a knitting needle, you could perhaps post up a photo of that.

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