So had baby on Tuesday there and have a 2 year old ex left 7 weeks ago.
I have never been so angry/tiered/hurt, had baby by csection and I am in so much pain it seems at night it gets so much worse to the point the last 2 nights my mum and dad Ave had to take her and do the feeds as I can't move without being sick from the pain! I was breastfeeding but I'm not able to because of the pain in my back making me really unwell.
Now the thing is is the father of my 2 kids who hasn't met my youngest yet is off on paternity leave for 2 weeks hasn't seen either of our kids! I am left to have all the sleepless nights, being in pain trying to lift her and look after my 2 year old. I emailed him his week to ask him if he wanted to see the kids and he said he doesn't want to meet the baby because he doesn't know when he will see her again (even though 3 weeks ago I sent him a lawyers letter to Say he could have her 3 days one over night but because I won't organise contact threw his parents or be allowed to ask if my kids are okay when he has them he hasn't asked to see them!
I am struggling so much I have my mum and dad helping but it should be their father that should be helping!!
He mum has been making such an effort with wanting to meet up with me inviting me over with the kids and stuff but he claims I'm a bad mum still!
Last night I felt like I was not able to do anything for my children but wanting to do everything for them!
How can someone not want to meet their daughter? ? Or see their son? Put their new relationship with ow before their family??
Not text or email to see if they can see their kids it's not like i would tell him no or that but in the 7 weeks he has been away he hasn't once text to ask how the kids are (even after the birth on tuesday)!)
Think I just needed a wee rant thinking about how he is off for 2 weeks and I'm here struggling to do anything with the kids and it's like he isn't bothered!!!