Destiny the reasons given on that baggage reclaim article for being rejected are these:
– They may for instance, be turning down the idea of being in something more than casual.
– They may be turning down behaving themselves and acting with at the very least, care, trust and respect.
– They may be turning down the opportunity to disappoint you even further in the long-run because they know what their limitations are.
– They may be turning down the possibility of starting something new because they know that they’re not ready, even if for a while they thought they were.
– They may be turning down meeting your needs because they can barely meet their own.
NONE of those applied. He did want more than casual, just not with me. He didnt behave himself and decide to act with care and respect by letting me down gently, he used and then dropped me; it wasnt his limitations, he has gone on to be a real bf to someone else very quickly; he was ready, just not for me; he can meet his needs and he has a gf now.
Ergo. It WAS me. He didnt want ME.
He can be a bf and go on mini breaks and introduce to all his friends this woman, but not me......
That article hammered it home, he just didnt want me and i wasnt good enough.