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What are the implications of citing co-respondents in a divorce?

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Heartbroken4 · 19/01/2016 00:42

That's it, really. What effect does it have one the people cited? What do they have to do? Does it add to the cost? The time it takes?

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whatyouseeiswhatyouget · 20/01/2016 13:48

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Heartbroken4 · 20/01/2016 14:12

Thank-you.

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Heartbroken4 · 22/01/2016 02:44

He is definitely going. He says he won't contest it if I bring a divorce on the grounds of adultery. He has to tell the children (again) tomorrow: they were devastated the first time he tried to leave. It is all so horrible. He (and my STBEXPiL) have made me feel so worthless. I don't want my children to spend time with them but I think he intends to take them there EOW (he works away in the week in a third location).

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sandgrown · 22/01/2016 03:45

Good advice Whatyousee I have been in your position many years ago but emerged with my dignity intact. Only recently though I met a woman who is friends with them who thought my beautiful adult daughter was theirs. I did get a bit of pleasure explaining ( in a very calm way) that she was my daughter and they got together when were married. Thank you Sassy for clarifying why unreasonable behaviour is used. I could not understand why my husband could divorce me for my unreasonable behaviour when he had been shagging anything with a pulse!

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