Me Again. I know who the OH is now ....

[MissPiggyandKermitsLoveChild]

.. and he is still denying it. Even though she has started tagging him in her fb photos. Random photos of places and check-ins each one tagging him, one hundred and fifty miles away from where he told me he was going to be today.

What a totally shit way to find out. Utterly devastated.

All of them "liked" by the same dozen or so people who are mutual friends of them both so I can only assume they know about them seeing each other.

how horrid for you

What a crappy way to find out (not that's there's any good way)

What will you do now?

Sorry, thread title should read OW not OH.

I just want him gone asap.

Oh love. I'm so sorry. The betrayal must be so painful. :(

Has he contacted you today?

Is there a mutual friend you get on particularly well with? Could you call them?

Jesus, and he is denying there is an OW? have you seen a solicitor? Screenshot all you can and get advice for divorcing. I am so sorry. What an absolute shitstain.

I haven't seen any of your previous threads OP, so sorry to hear this, that's totally shit!

You don't need his permission to leave him

Poor you. Poor, poor you.

Yuck, can you tell him to leave?

Don't know your backstory, but that's a horrible way to find out

Agree with PP - take screenshots and save them.

And leave him. Or kick him out, which ever is most beneficial to you.

Oh bless you, I've just had a look at your previous thread. Your gut instinct was obviously spot on

I hope you've got a friend you can confide in close to you.

As SurlyCue says screenshot as much as you can

She's really going for it, isn't she? She's creating a situation where you have to take action.

Spot on Imperial.

Wow what an absolute Pratt, do you know her? Have you a friend or close family member who could come comfort you just now? Is he coming back tonight?

I wouldn't have him back in the house, OP. He has an alternative place to go to. I'd put his bags and leave them by the front door so that he doesn't even have to come into the house.

Yuk. That is shit. Haven't seen your other threads but didn't want to read and run.

Oh god what an awful way to find out, is obviously being done purposely. Definitely screenshot everything. One mistake I made prior legal proceedings was not keeping any evidence. It resulted in me ending up in debt due to signing a clean break order as couldn't prove he had spent our money on certain things etc Don't have him back in the house, get the locks changed if you need to. What a shit!

Are you married to this lying tosser and do you have dc with him?

I suggest you text him saying 'Your game is up and you can ask your ow how I've come to have proof of your tawdry liaison with her. PS you can collect your belongings from the doorstep at 7pm tomorrow'. (or whatever day/time suits you).

What a pair of shits.

Pack a bag for him and leave it on the doorstep. Don't even let him across the threshold.

Hi there OP, glad to see you are getting kind support on here at a rotten time. We're happy to change that title over for you, just report your OP and we'll see it and get that sorted.

Can you drop all his stuff off at his mums/brothers/friends so he doesn't even come back to the house?

so sorry you are going through this.

Screenshot everything you've seen (sorry, I know that's painful), then contact a solicitor and tell him not to come home.
You don't need 'proof' that they've had sex, the belief that he's having an affair (and you have enough evidence that he is) is grounds for divorce for unreasonable behaviour.
I'm sorry.

Put a message on her Facebook.

"You know if he'll cheat with you, he'll cheat on you, you're welcome to him".

Mysteryfla nothing the OP has written leads me to believe she is the horrible sort of person who would publicly shame the poor woman who is also being cheated on.