been seeing someone for almost a year.
he is buying his own place and i will be keeping mine - he always said he wanted to take things slowly. no problem.
he is difficult at the best of times. complex. closed.
discussion the other day ended up making me think its time to cut and run.
we were talking about the future.
he says that on his retirement ( much sooner than mine) he will be emigrating.
he then says i can come and visit him at weekends as i will need to continue working to get my pension.
then he pauses and asks me how i will pay my rent with only my pension?
i wont retire for 17 years.
futures definitely not orange on this one is it?
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he just isnt that into me - is he?
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vicarinatutu · 06/09/2015 22:13
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TenQuidProQuo ·
07/09/2015 17:12
The thread about wanting a baby with this guy was only a month ago. 
Its all a bit car crash TV.
Starting threads like this late at night is always going to end badly.
I know some posters are happy to be so easily identifiable but I don't think it's a good idea for posters like Vicar. It's not fair on the other people involved (Adult kids, partners etc) and I don't think it's sensible for her.
It's probably for the best if she goes ahead with the dereg. There is nothing wrong with rejoining and posting under a new name for some impartial advice if she needs it. Maybe change a few details so that it's not obvious who is posting.
AnyFucker ·
07/09/2015 17:58
It's always pretty obvious, tbh. The situation really is that dire and that black/white, you would have to seriously fudge the details. And I don't think that is Vic's style.
I haven't replied to your last few threads, Vic, because I don't know what to say to you that doesn't start to look like kicking you when you are down. And the fact is, you are making a shit-hot job of that all by yourself right now
Ledkr ·
07/09/2015 18:20
Pribsbky should apologise for my sarky comment "Clarissa* I have not seen her other threads.
I'm shocked, she has always come over so together, what a pity.
I guess IT could happen to us all tho.
I am always bemused at people's surprise when someone who is happy to cheat on his family turns out to be a twat.
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