Questions to ask a 'mistress'

[tyres]

If you were to write a letter asking a series of questions to your partner's mistress, what would you ask?

I'm interested in questions from both perspectives, ie those who have had affairs and those who's partner is having or has had an affair.

Well, thanks all. I have on your overwhelming advice decided not to write my letter. I think it is helpful to get angry thoughts down in writing but to rarely send them. I know I've done a lot of that recently. So, I'm moving on to the next stage now.

Thanks again

Hope u r ok tyres whatever is happening! .

If your aim is to have her rethink and run for the hills so your husband comes back then your work is with him not her.
If your aim is to make sure your DC are safe and cared for with her then invite her round for a (cheap) glass of wine (or maybe not but you get the idea).
If you just want to upset her then don't waste the energy or headspace.

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It's rude to accuse posters of being nosey when they are only asking for more information to make their responses more relevant, stress is not an excuse.