Sorry so long 
So one of my oldest friends I getting married next April. I'm delighted for him. However he has bitten my head off the two times his wedding has come up. I now feel like avoiding him til it's over.
First thing he barked at me about and actually left cafe we were in with me sitting open mouthed and hurt was that he said they were having a very casual do with friends and family at registry office but limited numbers, followed by dinner for close family only, followed by a pub style venues that holds 300 where it will be a paying bar, some finger food provided and dancing etc til late. Sounds great. So he said they won't be doing flowers or photographers or any of that and my offending remark was 'I'd say there'll be some good speeches tho' to which he replied 'no we're not doing all that traditional crap' and I said 'ok then but I bet your brothers will start making speeches when they get a few drinks into them'. He got furious and said I was really pissing him off and then left.
Second incident 2 months later during which time he was very cool and off with me was when he was saying venue will take 300 and I asked if I would be able to bring my friend X with me as I'm eternally single and hate always going I everything on my own. He said 'No. I'm not having X at my wedding'. He has no history with her just thinks she is boring. I was taken aback and said well it's your wedding of course but is it no plus ones or do you want to vet who is brought. He just said he wasn't prepared to discuss it and called for the bill and left again. I feel like he is being a shit. Has this valued friendship come to an end? He knows I've been having an incredibly difficult time with my DD and mental health probs but I never burden with that. I think he thinks I'm boring and annoying and wants rid. Feel hurt.