BF and I have had a lot of issues for the last year. We split in March after he left me waiting for him till 4am after a night out with his friends. We've got trust issues and he knows I don't trust him because of his attitude towards other women. He cannot physically stop himself from checking out any blonde that he sees and he watches porn lots without caring about the effect it has on my confidence in our relationship.
A few months ago he went to Amsterdam 'alone' without telling me and this weekend he left his emails open and i saw he's been planning a trip to prague with a friend that he'd not told me about.
Can i seriously continue to tolerate this when he does nothing to ease or reassure my trust issues? He says they're just going sightseeing... how stupid does he think I am? He's also going to Russia next month... he always jokes about wanting a russian wife...
I think I'm going to tell him that if he goes it's over. He will go anyway, no way he would stop doing what he wants just to reassure me.
Am I being too controlling and insecure? Or is this guy really taking me for a mug?