I'll try and keep this short and sweet. My bf and I have been together 6 years we met when I was 17. For a period of 3 years I moved in with him AND his mother and it was the worst experience I felt like she was always trying to push me out I'd go downstairs to make my bf lunch she would already be down there. My bf is 30 now. I moved out back to my parents home as it was too much to bear. I hated living at my bf just because of his mother although she was fakely nice I new her intentions of keeping g her soon at home (did I mention it was her who invited me to live with her in the first place), I know it was because she was scared of her son leaving her. Now at present I think 6 years is more than enough time to think about marriage and moving in together ALONE. He actually offered to move out with me whilst I go to university so I could have help paying bills, my hopes were brought up however a week later he said that his mum had a heart to heart and said he can go but she would be sad if he left. Now this comment was enough for him to turn around and refuse to move out with me although he proposed the idea. Now he doesn't speak of it any more,, I'm in a sticky situation as I have just been left when we had plans I'm just on the verge of leaving but somehow hoping he will change is keeping me there. When he gets angry he always says 'why would I leave my mum for you' comment like this hurt. He is genually a lovely guy but his mum always seems to come first (which I respect in some cases ) but he is 30. Stays at mums rent free. Has no responsibilty . I'm sick of it and dint know what to do??
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