Have you missed your chance and regretted it.

[wellthisisstrange]

After fancying my colleague for 5 years and never doing anything about it, he has suddenly been transferred to another department. The last time we spoke there was a definite connection. He was giving off lots of signals, I wasn't imagining things.
Now I have lost my chance, hhaven't I?

I want him to contact me, but I know it's not going to happen.
I'm not the type to make the first move.

Dont try to be with him.

Instead keep the state like this.

The other grass will always be greener if you cant get it.

it is a so nice memory that you can had such feelings together. Dont break it.

Lots of people lose this memorable feelings after finally get into bed only to find out there is nothing special.

I had one affair with my colleague, only to find out she is not that amazing after naked in the bed. I didnt contact her any longer.

I have two dates lined up..one ame out at work the other off OL. Why piss about wondering what if?

LIFE IS NOT A REHEARSAL

..asked me out at work..

I fucking love davidburn
Best advice ever. Especially the 'naked in the bed' bit.

OP suggest a catch up over coffee as friends. That's a perfectly normal thing to do.

Nothing to feel awkward or embarrassed about. Would you feel awkward asking a female ex-colleague for coffee? Exactly so treat it as the same thing, and then just see what happens from there.