I have been with my partner for around 8 months, we got together pretty soon after my last relationship broke up so maybe I was on the rebound so to speak.
Anyway things were great at first, he's funny, generous etc but recently I'm finding him very unnattractive, he's overweight, has a big pot belly (that looks very unmanly) stretch marks on his stomach and back, he walks quite camp and he has a tooth missing, well it was actually broken off years ago and where the stub is still there it's all black and manky looking. So he has this gap in his teeth, green eyes and ginger hair and because of the ginger hair he has very light eye brows and lashes making his eyes appear quite "large"...lately I noticed that he looks a little bit like the crazy frog. (googly green eyes, pot belly and tooth missing!).
I know it sounds quite mean to talk about someone like this and I know I'm no oil painting but its really effecting how I feel about him, everytime he pulls a daft face or tries to have a laugh I can't help staring at him and thinking about how ugly he is. .
Maybe I'm just looking for excuses to finish with him as I wasnt really ready for another relationship?
In other ways he's ok, very clumsy and dopey though which irritates me, he's always breaking my things accidently, he's clumsy with his words too, always embarrases me when we're out.