How much is too much?

[Fairysprinkles]

DP has got in a temper manhandled DD into her cot, gone downstairs and really lost it. He threw her toys around the room till some of them broke and broke a door too. It's not the first time he's lost his temper.

However it isn't always like this and I've kind of got used to intervening and sorting things out before he gets too cross. Things are lovely as long as I keep house, get up with DD in the night etc. she's only young and everyone says it's hard at the beginning. My question is should I stay because anything worth having is hard work or should I cut my losses and leave.

Is the house rented or mortgaged? And in whose name? If it is a rented house, you might be able to get him out without stuffing the tenancy agreement on the grounds that he is causing damage to the property (landlords do not want tenants who break doors in a temper tantrum) but the landlords might also want you all to leave. But it's not up to him to decide that he isn't going. The fact that he has displayed aggression towards a very small child is reason enough for an occupation order, which he can't ignore - the police can come and literally grab hold of him and march him off the premises, if necessary.