Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

What should I do

68 replies

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 21:26

This is rushed, my Partner has kicked off tonight I really don't want to involve the police is there any where I can get help from?

OP posts:
AlternativeTentacles · 13/06/2015 21:58

The police are trained to help you - if he is a threat to you then call them. Nobody else is trained to be able to carry out the role of protecting you and has the power to arrest him if he starts getting violent.

If he doesn't want to get arrested then perhaps he needs to wind his neck in.

foolonthehill · 13/06/2015 21:59

Police were fantastic when I had to call them

ouryve · 13/06/2015 22:02

That is worth calling the police for, btw. Particularly since, if he's gone out, you don't know how drunk and angry he's going to be when he gets back. Don't feel you're wasting their time. That's what they're there for.

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:03

Not sure what to think he's cut my face but just not sure what to think I was having a go at him think I will call WA x

OP posts:
foolonthehill · 13/06/2015 22:06

good for you

SouthWestmom · 13/06/2015 22:07

So you've only just told him you're pregnant, he says it can't be his because he's had a vasectomy, and he's gone off after hurting you?
That doesn't sound like a wait and see situation. Glad you are calling WA

DragonsCanHop · 13/06/2015 22:07

You need some space to think and get over the shock. You shouldn't get hurt when having an argument, did you hurt him?

Does he have some where to go tonight or will he start banging on the door?

workingtoohardmum · 13/06/2015 22:11

If you are frightened by him it's because you have good reason to be ...follow your instincts ..get help ..be safe .

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:12

He's saying it's my fault I'm pregnant but I honistly did believe him,I was horrible with my tongue shouting at him I just don't know feel mixed up confused, he has a flat it's an hour 5o mins from mine

OP posts:
Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:13

He's probly gone pub so don't think he will risk driving that far

OP posts:
Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:17

I didn't hurt him I kep pushing him off me / away from me

OP posts:
Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:19

I havnt enough credit to call them I need to top up just carnt believe this has happend

OP posts:
foolonthehill · 13/06/2015 22:34

It's a freephone number 0808 2000 247

you are in shock but talking about it will give you perspective and help.

foolonthehill · 13/06/2015 22:44

always free from landline and payphone...but many mobile providers also allow this freephone number

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:47

I tried from my mobile it said will be charged at my local rate ?

OP posts:
WindMeUpAndLetMeGo · 13/06/2015 22:49

Try the number without the first 0, have been told to do that before

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:55

It's sayong calls to this number are bared he's texed he's on his way back do will see how we go I know if I need to call 3 9's I can

OP posts:
Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:56

Just think he's prolly calmed domed down now

OP posts:
Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 22:56

Calmed *

OP posts:
DragonsCanHop · 13/06/2015 23:01

Are you ok?

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 23:02

Feel scared and not sure what just happend

OP posts:
DragonsCanHop · 13/06/2015 23:14

Is he back?

You need to be able to feel safe, the police can help you tonight if needed.

Ledkr · 13/06/2015 23:17

Op can I call for you and ask them to call you back? Pm me if you wHy me to

Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 23:19

No not yet sat here waiting do I really think the police can help even if he's not beat me up bad

OP posts:
Babysleeps · 13/06/2015 23:20

Sorry ment do you think *

OP posts: