Ugh where do I start. Well a year ago I have fallen head over heels in love with the most perfect man that I have ever met. He treated me like a princess and worshipped the ground I walked on. We fell in love fast and became engaged 5 months after dating. Recently, about 2 weeks ago, he's had very very stressing situations happen to him. His son is in prison on pretty bad charges, he has been working 7 days a week, he lost his drivers license so now he has to take the bus everywhere, he might be going to jail for a while for an accident that occurred and every penny that we've been trying to save up for goes to his lawyer and his son. He also has so many more issues, lately we have been trying to have a child for a year and nothing has happened, he also has a very bad relationship with his parents and has gotten in a bad fight with his step dad. I can go on about his problems but I won't. Well lately he has been treating me kind of bad, he acts more sarcastic and he has a short temper (mind you he can be sarcastic sometimes when he's in a good mood that's how he acts when he's playing around but now it's been more serious) and he used to be one of the most patient people in the world. One of the best men that I have met in my life, nurturing hard working, cares and treats me so good all the time but it hasn't been the same lately in the past 2 weeks. I don't know if the stress has gotten to him and he's taking it out on me and I should stick it out, or if he's really going crazy. See I know were not married yet but I don't want to leave him, especially when he needs me the most. I have talked to him about it lately and he just tells me that I ask dumb questions but that he's sorry and that he thinks he's going crazy. Is this a rut? Or what?