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Do I talk to this OW? Complicated

54 replies

Beachday · 14/05/2015 17:54

When I found out about this OW it was the last straw. We separated, but he was still in the house, still begging me to take him back.

Then he died suddenly

No doubt she is upset. But she seems a bit unbalanced and she makes comments on his FB page that I think are inappropriate.

And if his mum found out he was having an affair it would break her heart.
She seems intent on trying to show people what he was to her.

I'm worried this will escalate.

My husband was a liar, so I have no idea what he said to her about us.
She knew he was married because we have a joint friend.
And I don't want to be intentionally mean, but maybe she should know what a liar he was. I think she thinks he was perfect.

She was a fuck buddy, I believe. He didn't spend that much time with her.

I wanted to keep his FB page because there are a lot of tributes on there and I know friends scroll through and look at pics etc and it helps them. And I wanted my son to see it in time.

What do I do about her?

OP posts:
Beachday · 16/05/2015 17:24

Ok
So, got into his email and blocked her, and her mates
Sorted

OP posts:
DragonsCanHop · 16/05/2015 17:53

Glad to hear it. Can you now delete her posts as well?

Beachday · 16/05/2015 18:46

Looks like they've all deleted

OP posts:
goddessofsmallthings · 16/05/2015 19:11

Well done you! If only all problems here could be so easily sorted... there's an urgent need for a block option which will consign all abusers and adulterers to virtual limbo to the trash box.

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