I met a guy last night who I had an explosive one night stand with - really tried to hold out but I really couldn't.
This morning he asked where did I want to go from here with him and I mentioned possibly being fuck buddies, which he seemed happy enough with. However, I knew that I liked him a bit too much for that though and knew if I started that up, I might end up getting hurt, so I told his this just before I left. He said he understood, but he really liked me and would like to spend more time with me and that we had each other's numbers.
Now my intention was to not contact him unless he contacted me first, but I am gagging to text him and meet up again. He's got me feeling those butterflies and whilst I know how risky this is, as I'm just starting to properly get over a long term relationship and I know as lovely as he is, I would become addicted to him very quickly, and therefore things could end badly if I got hurt.
I suppose what I'd like to know is has anyone started a relationship from a one night stand that they didn't expect to go anywhere? I've had one night stands before and not felt like this, but I really did feel I connected with him, and he said the same (he said it first too, so he wasn't just making me feel better hopefully!) I think if he'd have felt like it was just sex for sex sake, he wouldn't have mentioned spending more time together? But then again, maybe he was just being polite...
Arghhhhhh! Any advice welcome!