Ok so ive had four dates with a guy in past 4 weeks (3 dates in the first week then 1 date in past 3 week's. On first 3 dates hes seemed v keen and always said hed like to meet again. 4th date was a little awkward but its hard making convo for hours on end in busy bar!) Anyway hes been very quiet lately...no contact 8 days! He was abroad for 7 and then straight back to work. I text him after 8 days saying "hi stranger, are u alive?!" And was all set to forget him but he replied straight away saying busy at work and mum was taken in to hospital yest (which i do believe as i know shes been unwell) and that hes not had time to think about anything else .... I sort of feel that although he has a lot going on he should still have time to contact me if he was still interested...fed up of feeling in limbo....time to move on or give him a bit more time??!