Ok 2 weeks ago I met a guy offline... First date was a drink in a pub, he then suggested lunch, then a drink then coffee then as said bye he said he had a great time and would love to meet again. I txt him later that say to thank him and again he said we should do it again. I agreed. Then silence for two days so I txt him, short chat and I asked if he wanted to meet again. He agrees. Date number two was 4 days later and the same as first date! A long date with lots of chatting and him saying at the end he would love to do it again.
Again I had nothing more for two days so I txt him first and we agrees on a third date. Unfortunately it was a busy bar, awkward and ran out of things to say! Nevertheless he invited me to his for coffee, had our first kiss then he tried to get me into bed!! It was v late and I did stat but no actual sex!!
Again, after this date 2 days would pass and no contact. Every 2 days he'd txt to say hi but not much more.
Yesterday a week since our last date he txt small talk! No mention of another date so I asked him... I mentioned he seemed v.busy as I don't gear from him much/i usually initiate contact after 2 days not gearing from him. His reply was he's been quiet as v busy work and he thought he rushed things last Fri (which was true!) he then said he does like me and does want to see me again but doesn't feel like doing anything atm!! He then asked if I'm free this Fri. I said yes so meeting this Fri.
I've not had any tcts/calls since sat so 48 hours...i know its v early days and I wouldn't want constant txting but to go two days and no Hiya txt really makes him seem uninterested?!
I know he works long hours and don't think hes dating others altho he does log onto Pof daily!!
Should I forget him given his lack of enthusiasm?! I'm just confused as on the dates he seemed very keen!